ABOUT FORNICATION
Fornication is a - DrugFree - Event for Men(21+)
- - Fornication PARTIES ARE NOT filmed - -
March 2018: For the past 4-5 years, men across the US have been saying to me…
…we are losing our “men’s safe spaces”. Where can I go and not be shamed for being me and where I can connect authentically with other sane men, without that drugged-out disconnect? ...so I listened, and created Fornication Party
Fornication is…
1. Men (Male Identifying)(21+)
2. Drug Free (not just a cute disclaimer)
3. ShameFree & Inclusive regardless of your age, race, body etc.
4. Pornstar Models
5. We donate 100% of Jockstrap Auction to Charity
Our Ethic: Fornication is a space where respect, acceptance and consent are the norm and the bedrock on which we exist as individuals and furthermore as a group.
It’s a space where shame forgot to show up!
It’s a space where acceptance tastes like chocolate cake!
It’s a space where the hyper masculine are understood, fem-queens are included, bodybuilders are embraced, trans men are relished, average Joe's are exceptional, bears are loved and enjoyed and skinny boys don’t see themselves as too skinny but juuuuuust right! It’s a place where males of all demographics are supported and are authentically expressing themselves. We don’t just say Fornication is inclusive and shame-free…we SHOW IT.
Fornication is an experience!
WHAT IS FORNICATION (Long Form)
Fornication was inspired by many many conversations I was having on a regular basis with guys coast to coast who said they would go online to meet guys and would specifically state “no drugs” but the guy would show up high as a kite and so they were put in that very compromising humiliating position of either just going along anyhow or, if they had the courage, turning the guy away.
They would say to me “Ray, what can we do?“
When this became a regular theme I began to put some thought into it and tried to come up with something; something so different that it would catch peoples attention. Along with these conversations was also the conversation that our bath houses, clubs and men’s events as well as gay bars are going away one by one. Our “men’s safe spaces” are diminishing but our need for them still exists as long as men exist.
So, I created Fornication.
I added the PornStars to add some spice in accordance with our ethic that “nobody is too good for anyone else”. Inclusion. Intermingling. All races and body types are welcome and that’s what shows up. It’s a great diverse crowd.
At Fornication we have 2 types of parties.
1)Primarily we host 4 hour parties in cities coast-to-coast
2)We also host 3-4 day Men’s Retreat Weekends at Campgrounds & Resorts. These men-filled weekends include a wide range of activities including intimacy hour, panel discussions, sex therapist salon, 12-step meeting, tutorials on how to top or bottom, food, and lots of casual interactions just hanging out.
Fornication Creates Community
Meeting someone at a Fornication party means that you could meetup with them one-on-one and they can reliably show up drugfree.
As a community we rely on your participation whether that be by attending, volunteering, becoming a team member, by sponsorships or by spreading the word to let others know about the value you’ve gotten by attending a party. Look to see where you can bring your talents, joy and personal mojo to our diverse family.
YOU ARE WELCOME HERE
See you soon!
Ray and the Fornication Team
For testimonials on what our guests & performers say about Fornication… go to my YouTube click here ——> “Ray Dalton”
***While Fornication is Drug-Free , we are referring to “hard” drugs. This is not a “sober” event. Alcohol is often served at our events depending on the venue. Regarding Cannabis, please refer to you local state and government regulations.
